Un Article en defensa of Espanglish

April 19th, 2010 by admin 10 comments »

In defensa of Espanglish.

A few weeks after my arrival in Mexico I was asking a friend if a certain restaurant was worth going to. He replied in the affirmative and added “está nice” (it’s nice). In that moment I knew these people spoke my language or at least something  resembling it.

Spanglish or inglañol is hybrid dialect that is spoken principalmente in los united estaites but can also be heard in Gibraltar, Belize, Puerto Rico and some areas in Northen Mexico. My own interest in Spanglish began when I was learning Spanish because it reminded me of my own bilingual childhood speaking Welsh and English and the many creative constructions that I would hear “Dwi’n stopio gweithio ar y sixteenth of June” (I stop working on the 16th of June). I might write an article on Wenglish in the future but for now I will give you my passionate defense of Spanglish, how to speak it and its many advantages.

In Spain and to a lesser extent here in Mexico, many people look down their nose at Spanglish. In their view it poor Spanish, the language of the uneducated.

I sometimes think these people can’t hear themselves.

If you were to spend any time in Spain you will often hear things described as “super…guay” (cool), ect or a sentence such as “tengo que aparcar el coche” (I have to park the car). Aparcar here is modified from the English verb ‘to park’. Well-educated Mexicans will use verbs such as checar” (to check) or catchar” (to catch as in ‘to catch a ball’ not to catch a bus). In Mexico you could hear “voy a checar si hay un sandwitch de bistek en el referi para mi lonche” (I’m going to check if there is a beef sandwitch in the refidgerator for my lunch). I often ask myself “where do they think these words come from originalmente“?

Listen guys, language is a living, breathing organism. It lives not in universities and dusty dictionaries but on the streets in the mouths of the people. It cannot be contained as it is constantly evolving. Rarely used words become extinct (anybody use “thus” or “thou” in English anymore?) or words take on different meanings through the ages. “Gay” being a good example of a word that has changed meaning in the last 50 years. Language is creative and not set in stone. Just listen to the ‘cute’ sentences of toddlers or people who “have a way with a words” if you want to hear some interesting constructions that will make you smile. Language may be the last bastion of democracy, ruled completamente by the proletariat and not the bourgeoisie. Language has no respect for authority or tradition, its only concern is efficiency and communicating meaning.

Languages have been in contact and mixing for centuries. English itself is a mongrel language, with roots in Old German, French and other tongues. If you want proof then look for all of the Latin borrowings in English. The bastardized Spanish which is frowned upon in Spain may become the standard in a few generations time.

Looking down on Spanglish is usually jealously hidden within intellectual superiority. Usually the most violent supporters are monolinguals who only speak either English or Spanish and secretly envy those who have a natural, creative and bilingual command of both.

Outside an Auto-Shop in San Luis Potosí, Mexico

Here are a few tips on speaking the lingo:

False Cognates.

English           Spanish                 Spanglish
pallet               timbra                      paleta         (paleta in Spanish actually means lollipop)
carpet             alfombra                  carpeta        (carpeta in Spanish means folder)
library              biblioteca                libreria         (libreria in Spanish means bookstore)
groceries         provisiones             grocerias     (grocerias in Spanish means profanities)
injury               daño                        injuria          (injuria in Spanish means offense)
fabric               tela                          fabrica         (fabrica in Spanish means factory)
affluent            adinerado                afluente       (afluente in Spanish means current)
college            universidad              colegio        (colegio in Spanish means kindergarten)

How to make a Spanglish verb

Simply take an English verb, add -ear to the stem and voila you have an Espanglish verbo

English verb             Spanish verb               Spanglish verb
to clik                          hacer un clic                 clikear                                                                            to hunt                        cazar                             huntear                                                                          to punch                     pegar                            ponchear

Training wheels for beginners of Spanish.

For beginners of Spanish, spending time with bilingual speakers of English and Spanish can give you much needed confidence. When learning to speak a second language, there is something I like to call ‘drop out rate’ meaning how long you can speak in the L2 before you have to stop because of limited vocabulary or lacking in grammar. But if I’m talking to bilingual people, when I reach a dead end in my Spanish, I can throw in the English word, be understood, switch back to Spanish and keep right on going. “no se puede pasar por el…..uh…uh….road porque esta bloqueado” (One cannot enter this road because it is blocked).

Makes Spanish more accessible for English speakers.

Many people have a fear of learning a new language, believing it to be a difficult and complicated process. However, this process could be made a lot easier if they already recognize many of the words because they resembled familiar words from their mother tongue. For example, a new learner will feel much more confident reading or hearing a sentence such as ‘voy a rentar un carro porque tengo que pick up mi hija del bus stop’ rather than the ‘purists’ version: “voy a alquilar un choche porque tengo que recoger my hija de la parada del camion”. Once a learner has a basic command of the structure of Spanish then they can start to clean up their grammar and vocabulary a bit. However, in those crucial early stages where most people lose heart and give up, Spanglish could help in keeping them engaged.

They can try to stem the tide but it’s no use. Spanglish will take over.

Let the ‘Real Academia Española’ shoot me.

Further Reading.

Spanglish: The Making of a New American Language


10 Lessons from Britain’s Greatest Statesman

April 6th, 2010 by admin 3 comments »

The King of Orators

“Don’t be afraid to take a big step if one is indicated. You can’t cross a chasm in two small jumps.” David Lloyd George

No it’s not Winston Churchill.

Surprised?

A little note on history:  Up until 1939 (the beginning of World War 2), David Lloyd George was considered to be Churchill’s superior. Churchill’s career had been a string of failures up until that point whereas Lloyd George was ‘the man who won the war’ (the Great War of 1914-1918) and introduced many social benefits to aid Britain’s old, sick and unemployed.

World War 2 and posthumous revelations about Lloyd George’s personal life changed history for both men for ever.

My choice of Lloyd George as a hero is slightly biased as I am, like he, from the hills of North Wales. Many might balk at the fact that I should choose him as a hero given his failings. In the same way Easy E is another of my heroes, however, I certainly do not condone or copy some of his behaviors. My view is not to worship your heroes. Find their best qualities, model them and ignore the rest.

After a decade of studying Lloyd George, I have compiled a list of the 10 qualities I admire most in the ex-war leader. I have also included some actionable tips that readers can apply in their own lives:

1. Be wary of dogma, tradition and authority. It was said of Lloyd George that he had no respect for authority or the usual ways of doing things. He was always focused on the most practical way even if that meant being unorthodox. He rose from humble beginnings to the top of British politics and he was contemptuous of Royalty and those from wealthy backgrounds. He frequently employed  and enjoyed the company of self made men. Rather than giving immediate respect to somebody because of their family history, he gave much more respect to entrepreneurial mindsets and getting things done in the most efficient way possible.                                                                                                                                                                                                                   Tip: Value results above everything else. Value them above reputations, authority, the best-looking way or the traditional way. Question every assumption, expert, guru and continually seek the way that produces the best results in the shortest time.

2. Do not deliberate. One of my favorite descriptions about Lloyd George is that he would often make the wrong decision but he always made it quickly. The New York Times described him thus in 1907: “Mr. LLOYD GEORGE is a man of action, of quick decision, who knows his own mind”. Remember, leaders often make mistakes but they are rarely indecisive. One of my favorite quotes is: ‘Bad decisions are often preferable to indecision’.                                                                        Tip: give yourself a time limit on all decisions (say 10 mins) and do not deliberate. Eliminate the time between thinking and doing.

3. Action over Analysis. Two of my favorite quotes about Lloyd George’s approach to information intake are: “He picks up a subject as he runs, through the living voice, never through books. He does not learn : he absorbs” and “He does not pore over books to discover the facts about docks: he goes to Antwerp, to Hamburg, and sees.” Frequently described as a ‘man of action’, which the dictionary defines as ‘A person who prefers to act rather than contemplate and gets things accomplished quickly an efficiently’, I see Lloyd George as somebody who studied and contemplated very little but was always ‘doing’. A contemporary of both Churchill and Lloyd George once said: “Winston is impetuous in spite of knowledge and Lloyd George is impetuous without it.”                                                                                                                                        Tip: It is impossible to have complete information before making a decision or taking action. Do not study a subject before beginning. Dive straight in and fill the information gaps as you go rather than gathering all the information before starting.

4. Positivity and cheerfulness. Lloyd George was always described as lively, dynamic, full of vitality and spirit. During a House of Commons tribute after Lloyd George’s death, Sir Geoffrey Shakespeare described his character:”The other great impression made on my mind as a young man was that of a great human personality, throbbing with life, overflowing with spirits and with an infectious gaiety of mind”. These are all qualities that we should seek to cultivate as they will attract people and resources to us.                                                                                                                   Tip: try the 21 day no complaint experiment to eliminate complaining, try smiling every time you make eye contact with somebody today. Or read this.

5. Industrious habits. As I mentioned in the opening paragraph. LG’s personal life left a lot to be desired but his work habits were beyond reproach. He went to bed early and was an early riser. He was described by his daughter as ‘the most punctual person in the world’ and was a teetotaler (in contrast to the near alcoholic Churchill).
Tip: becoming an early riser and being punctual will take you a long way in your career. Your critics may be able to attack you on many things but let them never question your habits and professionalism.

6. Be the tall poppy. Political cartoonist David Low said: “Lloyd George was the best-hated statesman of his time, as well as the best loved”. His opposition to the Boer War, the fact that he was Welsh in an English dominated society and the fact that most leaders are unpopular when things go bad all contributed to intense opposition. His great quality is that he did not blink in the face of this violent (literally) opposition and racism throughout his career. Winston Churchill in his own tribute after Lloyd George’s death said: “He faced undismayed the storms of criticism and hostility”. Tip: ‘to avoid criticism-do nothing, say nothing, be nothing’ as Elbert Hubbard said. Remember the more influence and success you have the more haters you will have also. If nobody dislikes you at the moment you are probably not doing much. Seek to be like Lloyd George, inspire either love or hate but never apathy.

7. Courage. Following from number 6, many historians and contemporaries said that LG’s greatest quality may have been his courage. He wasn’t particularly courageous in the physical sense (he would hide under the table during storms) but his moral courage was colossal.
Tip: being brave does not have to mean skydiving or bungee jumping. It can be a willingness to have uncomfortable conversations or take and unpopular option. Do one thing everyday that you fear. As John Wayne said: ‘Courage is being scared to death but saddling up anyway’.

8. Your disadvantages can become your advantages. As I have mentioned previously, the great majority of Lloyd George’s contemporaries came from royalty and were educated at the best schools (Eton) and universities (Cambridge and Oxford). Lloyd George did not attend university. This proved to be to his advantage. The minds of his ‘well educated’ peers were formed by these educational establishments and their creativity may have been stunted. Lloyd George had no such constraints. His mind was quick, darting, challenging and nimble. Not restricted or grooved into patterns of thinking by academic schooling.                                                                                    Tip: Find the positive in any weaknesses you feel you have. For example: I don’t have any time. Then you will be forced to make every minute count because and you can’t waste hours and kill time.

9. Lack of pomposity or vanity. It was often said that Lloyd George talked to the commoners and would treat everybody as equals. He always took verbal jabs and jokes at his expense in good humor. Viscountess Astor paid tribute to his character upon his death: “Of all men I have ever known he was freer than any from personal vanity.” If the leader of then the most powerful nation on earth (at that time) could do it then we all can.                                                                                Tip: Life feels a lot lighter when you can let go of all your insecurities and laugh at yourself. When you put yourself out there and others poke fun at you, laugh along too.

10. Live in the now. His contemporary Max Aitken said that Lloyd George “lived for the now and had no knowledge of history and that tomorrow could look after itself.” In an excellent essay on Lloyd George’s character I found this description: “He is not modern: he is momentary. There is no past: only the living present; no teachers: only the living facts.”                                                            Tip: Do you want to study history or make history? Your actions today will create your future tomorrow. Forget the past and the future, as Easy-E said on his deathbed in a message to fans: “Just remember: It’s YOUR real time and YOUR real life”

Cultivate qualities such as boldness, courage, punctuality, cheerfulness, action, decisiveness and living in the now. You might not lead your country to victory in a world war but you can improve your own leadership skills. Saying that, if a small boy from a tiny village in the hills who did not speak English as a first language could rise to the top of the Great British Empire then anybody can.

On a parting note, many consider Lloyd George one of the greatest orators of all time, If you would like to improve your public speaking you would do well to study his speeches and also check out video/audio footage if you can find it. Study his use of metaphors and the use of voice and gestures. A true master of his craft.

How to Hack Language Learning: Part 1-Vocabulary

March 16th, 2010 by admin 16 comments »

Too much new vocabulary places stress on the learner

I had to meet him.

My Spanish girlfriend had just finished telling me about this English guy named John who had given a 5 minute long speech in a lecture theater full of Spaniards and she could have sworn he was born in Barcelona not Bournemouth.

At that point I had been living in Spain for 4 months and could barely string a sentence together despite hours of study every day. This sounded mighty impressive to say the least.

During my first conversation with John I made a joke in Spanish using the word ‘cochino’. He stopped me and asked what that word meant. I was shocked that somebody with such an advanced level of Spanish did not know the word for ‘pig’. That was the moment I realized:

It is not necessary to know every word in the dictionary to sound like a native speaker much less communicate with one.

In my experience of learning three languages and teaching three others, learning grammar (structure of the language) and managing the verbs is king. Acquiring impressive sounding vocabulary words comes way down the list of importance.

I used to think that if I could just mentally I swallow my bilingual dictionary then I would be bilingual myself. People who are learning a new language will often carry around their bilingual dictionary like a bible and frantically thumb through the pages whenever they hear a new word.

I don’t bother.

Look at it this way. If a word is commonly used then you will hear it or see it many times. After being exposed to it dozens of times you will understand the meaning and how it is used in conversation, all without touching a dictionary.

These are the two groups of vocabulary words that I choose to focus on during the initial stages of learning a new language:

1.High frequency words.
It has been proven that our ‘active vocabulary’, meaning the language we use when speaking to others, is between 500-1,500 words. That means fluency can be achieved with a fairly small vocabulary. What is a high frequency word for people who don’t know? For example, in English, ‘for’ is a high frequency word and you would do well to understand all of its uses. ‘Peremptory’ or ‘garrulous’ are not high frequency words. Most natives will not know the meaning of ‘garrulous’ and will have never used it in their life. If native speakers don’t even know then why would you bother learning it?

I also break down the highest frequency words into the following categories:

25 most commonly used verbs
25 most commonly used nouns
25 most commonly used adverbs
25 most commonly used prepositions
25 most commonly used pronouns
25 most commonly used conjunctions

I consider these the fundamentals. In any skill, whether that be golf or dancing, your mastery of the fundamentals will be the key to your success. Tiger Woods will spend hours grooving his set-up and short game while most amateurs will practice bashing drivers on the range because it is sexier and more exciting. Although it may be boring and monotonous to practice the basic fundamentals over and over, it is what separates the pros from the amateurs.

2. Cognates and Transformations.
If I’m learning a Western language, I focus heavily on the commonalities to speed up my progress. There are thousands of words that are identical in meaning and near identical in spelling. Here are a few of the many English-Spanish cognates (words that have the same spelling and meaning but differ in pronunciation):

idea
ideal
chocolate
grave

By ‘transformations’ I mean finding the Latin roots in English (or whatever happens to be your first language) and quickly transferring those words into the language you are studying.

Here is an example of a quick transformation:

All words ending in ‘ly’ in English are the same in Spanish but end in ‘mente’:

naturally-naturalmente
rapidly-rapidamente

There are handful of these transformations that can provide you with a vocabulary of roughly 3,000 words in your target language that you already know.

By combining the high frequency words with cognates and easy transformations, I have a working vocabulary of around 4,000 words after roughly a couple of months or less of study. Assuming my grammar is decent I will be at an intermediate to upper intermediate level after only a matter of weeks rather than years.

Possessing this vocabulary of high frequency words and borrowed words from my native tongue I will easily be able to converse with a native and will be able to live independently in a native environment. With this solid base I can acquire more specialized vocabulary and develop my language further should I wish to do so.

The best way to learn vocabulary will be the topic of a different blog post. Do your own research into techniques such as mnemonics and spaced repetition if you want to learn more.

I hope this posts helps to remove many of the fears and limiting beliefs many adults have carry when attempting to learn a second language.

This is the first part of a series of articles on hacking languages. I will cover grammar and pronunciation in parts 2 and 3.

Good resources for hacking vocabulary (and languages in general) are:

Routledge Frequency Dictionaries

Michel Thomas

Books by Margarita Madrigal

Corpus-based high frequency word lists

High Intensity Work: How to Muscle Up your Productivity

March 4th, 2010 by admin 3 comments »

The new breed of information workers

High Intensity Training is a theory of resistance training that was popularized by Arthur Jones in the 1960’s.  In short, it advocates: train hard, train infrequently and rest plenty.  Maximum results in minimum time. We don’t need to spend hours in the gym to build muscle or lose body fat.

One high intensity tenant is: “there is an inverse relationship between how intensely and how long one can exercise“. Basically as you work longer your intensity will drop off. It has to. Compare a 100m sprinter with a marathon runner or circuit training with those guys who spend two hours in the gym, mostly chatting between sets.

Well how does this all relate work? Simple. We have all been conditioned most of our lives to associate hard work with duration. The workaholic putting in 90 hours a week and sleeping in his office is admired for his ‘dedication’. He works harder than the guy who works 20 hours a week right?

Let me define hard work anew here: focus and intensity not duration are the markers of hard work. It is impossible to sustain 110% effort for 80 hours a week, just as it is impossible to sustain a sprinter’s speed for a marathoner’s distance. Most of those 90 hours will be consumed by task switching, low-yield task, crutch activities and procrastinating.

Here a some tips to ramp up the intensity of your work and get that heart rate up to 220bpm:

1.Single task. This is pretty much a no brainier. If you are doing two things at once then you are splitting your intensity between the two. If you can chat to your workout buddy while benching then your intensity is too low.
2.Set a timer. Set a countdown timer for a short period (10-40 mins). Remember your intensity will start to drop the longer you go. Excellent resource: egg timer.
3.Keep moving. Arthur Jones advocated taking no rest between sets at the gym. This is called the ‘rush factor’ and was one of Jone’s keys to maximum intensity.  If you are working on a computer keep your fingers moving or don’t let the pen leave the paper if you are writing.
4.Head down. While working during the countdown do not allow yourself to stare out of the window, daydream, take a toilet break or grab a coffee. These will be your rewards when you have finished. Remember, a marathon runner can pick up a drink along his route while a sprinter only has eyes for the finish line.
5.Remove distractions. This is the key that makes 1-4 possible. Lock your door, unplug the phone, put on some noise canceling headphones, switch off the email alert, instant messenger and twitter. Remove any visual cues for daydreaming from your desk. Strip your chosen workspace until every atom of your attention is focused on the task in front of you.

Somebody wants to ‘beat’ you and work 70-90 hours a week? Let them. Once you start working in these short, high intensity bursts with adequate rest periods between, you can walk tall with the knowledge that while you are going flat out they are probably limping around the track.

In true HIT style, this post was banged out in 20 mins followed by a protein shake and a nap. Arthur Jones would be proud.

5 Tools for Kicking your Internet Addiction

February 23rd, 2010 by admin 9 comments »

Think you can have 'just one'?

Holy $@#&! …..it’s 7pm! ……When did it become dark outside?

I sat down at my computer at 4pm with the rest of the afternoon and evening in front of me. I was almost salivating with thoughts of how much I could get done with all this free time. The next thing I remember was looking at my clock and realizing 3 hours had passed and I had accomplished nada.

Have you ever had the intention of watching one YouTube video and then a ‘related video’ in the right toolbar caught your eye so you clicked on that one? These ‘rabbit holes’ are all too familiar when you start with one Wikipedia article and end up clicking through hyperlink after article after hyperlink until you come to your senses an hour later.

Remember a golden rule about information consumption: Interesting is not the same as relevant. Many millions of things on the internet are interesting but very few are relevant to our goals.

So if that’s the problem then what is the solution?

I believe it is much more effective to create external constraints rather than using your own will power. This is true no matter how strong or weak you believe yourself to be.

I have tested many different tools for preventing myself from checking my Facebook 20 times a day. Below I will give my opinion on various blocking software available and how easy it is for your addicted self to circumnavigate them. (important)

1. Leechblock
This Firefox add-on is extremely popular on the web. By the way, if you are not browsing the web using Mozilla Firefox then I recommend you do.
Advantages: It’s free and simple to download. What’s great is that you can specify the period of time or day of the week that you would like to block a site for. For example: between 9-5, only have access to the evil site for 10 mins every Sunday or block it completely. If you choose to enable access for a set period then you will see a countdown timer in the bottom right hand corner of the screen.  You can create up to six different categories of sites to block e.g emails. social networking. videos, adult content ect. Pretty nifty.
Disadvantages: As this is a Firexfox plugin then when I’m shaking from email withdrawals then I can just load my Safari browser on my mac or Internet Explorer if I’m using a PC.

2. Self Control
Created by Steve Lambert, a Brooklyn based developer and artist, this one is for serious addicts.
Advantages: Before pressing ’start block’ on this baby you had better be sure because there is no going back. Even a reboot of your computer won’t disable the block.  Like Leechblock you can set a time limit of anything between 1 minute to 12 hours. If you deem a site to be poisonous to your productivity you can add it to your black list in one click. Also, Steve and his team have always responded promptly to any emails I have sent them with questions or problems that are not answered by their excellent FAQ. There also does not appear to be a limit on the number of sites that you can add to your blacklist.
Disadvantages: Only available for mac users. Blocking a domain will disable all sub-domains. For example, if I wish to block Google videos because I’m searching for humorous clips now that my YouTube is blocked- I will also block all other Google pages in the process. I have also experienced a recurring bug that sets the timer to 00:00 with a perma-block. (Actually that should be an advantage)

3. Freedom
This blocker does not discriminate in terms of productive or unproductive websites, it declares all out war by disabling your network connection entirely.
Advantages: Great for creatives who want to block all distractions to get into that all important flow state necessary for writing, composing, programming ect. You can also specify the time you would like to disable your connection and can set to from anything from 20 minutes to 8 hours.
Disadvantages: Only available for mac users at the moment. Also, unlike Self Control, a simple reboot of your machine will disable the block.

4. Rescue Time.
More of a productivity tool than a pure blocker, this time management and analytics tool has more uses then I can discuss here.
Advantages: The basic version is extremely useful to see where exactly you are spending your time and comes at a great price: free. If you would like to track your online time then this is the tool to use.
Disadvantages: The ability to block sites is only available on the paid version of the software.

5. Modifying the hosts file in your own computer. No need for fancy plugins here. Go minimalist by editing a simple text file that lives on your own system.
Advantages: Once you have entered the website to be blocked then it will be inaccessible across all platforms-Safari, Firefox, explorer and so on.
Disadvantages: For luddites and non programmers it can be a little tricky to set up, however, the step by step instructions here are excellent. Ironically, once you are familiar with the process of entering a site onto your block list then you will also know how to remove a site also. Also some urls I have entered have are still accessible for whatever reason. My advice would be to enter many different versions of the domain.

All of these (besides self control) are fairly easy to get around but maybe they work well enough as a deterrent and you will have enough time while rebooting your computer to think twice about breaking that promise to yourself . One unforeseen advantage is that my friends, housemates and family no longer want to borrow my laptop due to all of these blocks. It is much easier for them to bother somebody else to check their Myspace pages.

I would not have been fired from at least one job had I known about these blocks at the time. I don’t know whether to laugh or cry.

Has anyone else tried any of these? Tell us what you think or if you have found any other useful tools for blocking access.

How to Enjoy Learning a New Language

February 19th, 2010 by admin 3 comments »

Read all of these and you'll be a Wizard at Hebrew

“Try to read things that you are interested in. Don’t make yourself read something that will bore you.” Michel Thomas

One of the main problems people experience while studying a new language is that studying the material is often about as quick and enjoyable as wading through a swamp of tar and treacle. Result: they eventually give up frustrated and exhausted. Reaching for the bilingual dictionary every third word can wear down the spirit of even the most persistent of wannabe linguists. What is the answer then?

Read Harry Potter

That’s right. Read your favorite books or watch your favorite films in your target language.The interest and enthusiasm you experience from reading your favorite books will be enough to push you through any feelings of frustration that will inevitably come from reading or listening in an unfamiliar language.

I’m willing to bet that you’ve read your favorite books and seen your favorite movies at least more than once. Knowing the story and some of the dialogue implicitly, you are free to focus on the new language that you are studying. Free from any worries about plot or what on earth just happened in the last scene.  Even better, if you know some of the dialogue by rote you will experience many ‘ah-ha’ moments where your present knowledge of your first language and your target language will click.

Think of your material in your target language as foods. Are you consuming material/foods that you like? What are the odds of you sticking with the book/film until the end? Do not read a book that you would not read in your native language, you will give up before you reach halfway.

Learn about an area of interest through your target language. If the life of Van Gogh fascinates you and you are learning French then you might want to read about his life in the target language.

Now obviously, if you are learning Zapotec or Welsh (my first language) then you might have difficulty finding your favorite underground novel but it may not be impossible. If your target language is a major one then you should have no trouble and the vast majority of publishing smash hits are translated into several languages.

My favorite film?…..tough one but I’d have to say the 2005 Oscar winner Crash. Favorite book would be even harder, so hard that I’ll cheat and choose two that I’ve really enjoyed in the past two years The Four Hour Work Week and Moon Palace by Paul Auster.

So use your interests and hobbies to help drive you towards mastery of a new language. Take the enjoyable road to fluency, learning to should never be a chore.

Resources for books and films:

Amazon for French

Amazon for Spanish

Amazon for German

Amazon for Japanese

http://www.netflix.com/

If you have some other resources for locating your favorite books/films in a foreign language please add them in the comments selection.

Changing from the Outside-In: The Uncommon Guide to Personal Transformation

January 2nd, 2010 by admin 5 comments »

It's what's on the surface that counts

One of my big goals with this blog is to provide information and tips that have some scientific validity and that are immediately actionable.

For years I read the books of every self help guru around and tried every technique suggested. From visualizing myself achieveing my goals, repeating affirmations to myself and other exercises to change deep seated beliefs. I tried them all and here is the crux: Trying to change your thinking is akin to running around trying to catch a greased pig while carrying a slimy water balloon in your hands.

The other problem with trying to tweak ‘mental programming’ is that it reinforces the idea that there is some deep ‘inner me’ that is invisible and fixed. Personality traits and identity are much more fluid and visible than this. Assuming that we agree on this, it is liberating to view such concepts as the ‘inner child’ and ‘unconscious programming’ as nothing more than abstract nonsense.

Now don’t get me wrong. Im not saying that you can’t change on the inside at the core level. You certainly can but I am suggesting that you must first reshape your outer world and the inner will follow.

I believe that many people go about trying to change their beliefs in the wrong way. For years I heard the mantra in self help: be-do-have. For the past couple of years I have tried to follow a do-be-have formula.

I have found time and time again that if you change your behaviors then your beliefs will follow and not the other way around. To quote one of my favorite authors, Tim Ferriss: “the fastest way to master your inner game is to master your outer game”. For example, any males (or even females) who are reading this and would like to develop more presence and assertiveness? I would suggest a resistence training program to develop greater musculature and training in any kind of combat art such as boxing or muy thai to condition yourself to facing aggression.

The chapter ‘Self Confidence and the Image we Project’ in Derren Brown’s book Tricks of the Mind discusses these concepts further. He suggests that we should “shift behaviors on the surface to stir the deeper waters below”. Also, The Complaint Free World movement (more to come on this) recognizes the difficulty of changing thoughts and so focusses on changing your words. Words first, thoughts will follow.

So get off the psychoanalyst couch or out of the hypnosis course. Try on some new behaviors as if they were new clothes, regardless of whether you think that is the ‘real you’ or not. Will these new behaviors be unfamiliar or uncomfortable? Yes. Those uncomfortable feelings are signals that you are pushing the envelope.

Good luck.